Sunday, August 31, 2008

7 Days and Counting...

It is 11 a.m. in Tainan right now... one week from this second, I will be the happiest mom in the world. Can you believe we've actually gotten to this point?

Tiffanie is with Gracyn as I type... AMAZING! And Lucy and Noah are the next to come home. The three of us moms have certainly spent enough time waiting.

The first glimpse of our daughter almost a year ago.

Speaking of waiting... for those of you who only know your kids via photos and monthly updates and feel like it will never happen——it will! And you know what? If you're anything like me, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time worrying and obsessing about moving forward when you could be doing all the things you said you'd do. Have I learned enough Mandarin? Uh, no. Did I freshen up on my sign language to make it easier? Hmmm, nope. Is my house completely organized from top to bottom before she gets here? Now that's just funny.

Someone said to me many months ago that I should not focus on when it's going to happen, but that it is going to happen. And that is the one thing that kept me going. It will happen for you, too. In fact, the wait—for me—has been like being pregnant... you wish it away at times but it's drawn me closer to Lucy, helped me look within myself for something I didn't even know I had, and has grown a love for the little girl who was meant to be with us.

That being said—kick, scream and cry when you need to. You deserve that too.

7 Days and Counting...

It is 11 a.m. in Tainan right now... one week from this second, I will be the happiest mom in the world. Can you believe we've actually gotten to this point?

Tiffanie is with Gracyn as I type... AMAZING! And Lucy and Noah are the next to come home. The three of us moms have certainly spent enough time waiting.

The first glimpse of our daughter almost a year ago.

Speaking of waiting... for those of you who only know your kids via photos and monthly updates and feel like it will never happen——it will! And you know what? If you're anything like me, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time worrying and obsessing about moving forward when you could be doing all the things you said you'd do. Have I learned enough Mandarin? Uh, no. Did I freshen up on my sign language to make it easier? Hmmm, nope. Is my house completely organized from top to bottom before she gets here? Now that's just funny.

Someone said to me many months ago that I should not focus on when it's going to happen, but that it is going to happen. And that is the one thing that kept me going. It will happen for you, too. In fact, the wait—for me—has been like being pregnant... you wish it away at times but it's drawn me closer to Lucy, helped me look within myself for something I didn't even know I had, and has grown a love for the little girl who was meant to be with us.

That being said—kick, scream and cry when you need to. You deserve that too.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

The Next Best Thing...

While we wait one more week before getting on the plane (yes, ONE more week!)... we get to celebrate the homecoming of another little one. This post is dedicated to Tiffanie and her sweet Gracyn. Tiff is just hours from jumping on a plane and FINALLY getting her little girl.

Tiff and I have emailed and chatted via phone for months now... she first saw Gracyn's photo last November and we both thought we were going to speed through the process. Remember the dream of traveling in February, Tiff? Well, here we are... our lives changing forever just a week apart from one another.

Go get her, Mom of TWO! We are so close to that dream of watching our princess costume-clad girls hitting Disneyland with our boys... it's within our reach.

The Next Best Thing...

While we wait one more week before getting on the plane (yes, ONE more week!)... we get to celebrate the homecoming of another little one. This post is dedicated to Tiffanie and her sweet Gracyn. Tiff is just hours from jumping on a plane and FINALLY getting her little girl.

Tiff and I have emailed and chatted via phone for months now... she first saw Gracyn's photo last November and we both thought we were going to speed through the process. Remember the dream of traveling in February, Tiff? Well, here we are... our lives changing forever just a week apart from one another.

Go get her, Mom of TWO! We are so close to that dream of watching our princess costume-clad girls hitting Disneyland with our boys... it's within our reach.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Kind of Like Hold Music...for Blogs

I know I've been kind of quiet lately. Getting everything together, spending as much time with boys as I can and trying to get a little sleep in before the fabulous chaos ensues has kept me busy.

So I thought I would just do a post to tide you over until I've gotten my act together.

Here are some stories from momlogic that I thought you might find interesting...

One written by me:
Dear Christina Applegate...

And another by a very brave friend:
Mommy for 4 Months

Speaking of writing... I've gotten some funny emails from those wanting to take over the blog for me while we're busy with Lucy. Keep 'em coming! I would love to post all the entries over the weekend!

And, for a little reminiscing before we take off in 9 DAYS, here is a last peek at my video diary from my trip to Taiwan in May.

I've got a lot more to share but tough to get my head wrapped around it all...I'll have something new to say later in the week!

PS: You've got less than 48 hours to listen to Jeff's song and VOTE. Thanks for all the wonderful support!

Kind of Like Hold Music...for Blogs

I know I've been kind of quiet lately. Getting everything together, spending as much time with boys as I can and trying to get a little sleep in before the fabulous chaos ensues has kept me busy.

So I thought I would just do a post to tide you over until I've gotten my act together.

Here are some stories from momlogic that I thought you might find interesting...

One written by me:
Dear Christina Applegate...

And another by a very brave friend:
Mommy for 4 Months

Speaking of writing... I've gotten some funny emails from those wanting to take over the blog for me while we're busy with Lucy. Keep 'em coming! I would love to post all the entries over the weekend!

And, for a little reminiscing before we take off in 9 DAYS, here is a last peek at my video diary from my trip to Taiwan in May.

I've got a lot more to share but tough to get my head wrapped around it all...I'll have something new to say later in the week!

PS: You've got less than 48 hours to listen to Jeff's song and VOTE. Thanks for all the wonderful support!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Two Weeks From This Very Moment...

Need I say more?

Two Weeks From This Very Moment...

Need I say more?

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Writer for Hire


Have you noticed how many, if not most, blogs tend to get pushed aside when the little ones come home? Of course they do--suddenly, mom is being pulled in so many directions, the first thing to go is the updates and photos.

Well, I have the perfect solution for that...

Taiwan Lucy is hiring! OK, so not really "hiring" since the position is unpaid... but think of the fun you'd have entertaining readers while I'm doing things like flying on an airplane, bonding with my daughter, and (the very important) trying to get some sleep. I admit, I have plans to keep the blog up. In fact, I plan to talk more about the realities of parenting, the challenges and struggles, and (what I assume will be) the always-interesting life with three kids 4-and-under.

What you need to do to enter: Write up a sample post (a paragraph or two would suffice) and send it to me at jmomac@mac.com -- the post would become my property and would possibly be posted on the blog along with others for voting. The ideal candidate has the ability to write posts that are funny, heartfelt, informational --and always entertaining.

Come on, people! Are you up for the TL challenge?

Writer for Hire


Have you noticed how many, if not most, blogs tend to get pushed aside when the little ones come home? Of course they do--suddenly, mom is being pulled in so many directions, the first thing to go is the updates and photos.

Well, I have the perfect solution for that...

Taiwan Lucy is hiring! OK, so not really "hiring" since the position is unpaid... but think of the fun you'd have entertaining readers while I'm doing things like flying on an airplane, bonding with my daughter, and (the very important) trying to get some sleep. I admit, I have plans to keep the blog up. In fact, I plan to talk more about the realities of parenting, the challenges and struggles, and (what I assume will be) the always-interesting life with three kids 4-and-under.

What you need to do to enter: Write up a sample post (a paragraph or two would suffice) and send it to me at jmomac@mac.com -- the post would become my property and would possibly be posted on the blog along with others for voting. The ideal candidate has the ability to write posts that are funny, heartfelt, informational --and always entertaining.

Come on, people! Are you up for the TL challenge?

Thursday, August 21, 2008

11 Months Waiting


It was (one month shy of) a year ago when we nervously walked into our agency office to see the photo of the baby girl who would become our daughter. While every month after that was met with sadness, this is the last time we will commemorate the month-i-versary with longing.

As you may recall, 11 is, in fact, my lucky number. So it's fitting that we would finally be united as a family after 11 months waiting.

It's also fitting that we become a family of five during September. All my life, September has been symbolic of sadness and loss——not only is it the month my mother was born——it's the month we lost her.

But the month of sadness changed that September in 2003, when I discovered I was pregnant with J. In 2005, it was the month B was born. And in 2007, we received the referral of our little Lucy. Now, we'll all be united in September. I know there's someone up there looking down and saying, "see, stop all the whining——September should be your favorite month."

Speaking of September, something compelled me to open up Lucy's referral file the other day to see when her own biological mother's birthday was. And there it was in black and white——September 5th...the day we leave for Taiwan.

I've learned throughout this journey that there really are no coincidences——just signs that we're moving in the right direction. After all, don't forget this one.

Oh, and get this one... my bro-in-law, Lucy's Godfather, has never been to Taiwan. In fact, I don't know that he ever goes out of the country on business. BUT he's going to be in Taipei on business the exact same time we're there. How crazy is that?
Two weeks from tonight, we're on our way!

11 Months Waiting


It was (one month shy of) a year ago when we nervously walked into our agency office to see the photo of the baby girl who would become our daughter. While every month after that was met with sadness, this is the last time we will commemorate the month-i-versary with longing.

As you may recall, 11 is, in fact, my lucky number. So it's fitting that we would finally be united as a family after 11 months waiting.

It's also fitting that we become a family of five during September. All my life, September has been symbolic of sadness and loss——not only is it the month my mother was born——it's the month we lost her.

But the month of sadness changed that September in 2003, when I discovered I was pregnant with J. In 2005, it was the month B was born. And in 2007, we received the referral of our little Lucy. Now, we'll all be united in September. I know there's someone up there looking down and saying, "see, stop all the whining——September should be your favorite month."

Speaking of September, something compelled me to open up Lucy's referral file the other day to see when her own biological mother's birthday was. And there it was in black and white——September 5th...the day we leave for Taiwan.

I've learned throughout this journey that there really are no coincidences——just signs that we're moving in the right direction. After all, don't forget this one.

Oh, and get this one... my bro-in-law, Lucy's Godfather, has never been to Taiwan. In fact, I don't know that he ever goes out of the country on business. BUT he's going to be in Taipei on business the exact same time we're there. How crazy is that?
Two weeks from tonight, we're on our way!

He's At It Again...

Jeff's in the next installment of the Song Fu competition. Go HERE to listen to his song and vote, vote, vote! (por favor)

He's At It Again...

Jeff's in the next installment of the Song Fu competition. Go HERE to listen to his song and vote, vote, vote! (por favor)

Monday, August 18, 2008

Chat with Friends, Feed My Kids

As most of you know, I work over at momogic.com as Supervising Producer. The site has really taken off in the past ten months and last week, we launched a new community--kind of like a Facebook for moms.

I head up the adoption group... and also belong to others like local groups, blogging mamas, etc. There is something for every mom (and even dads)...and if there isn't, you can create it!

If you join right now, you'll be entered to win a Wii Fit. So come on over and let's chat!

Chat with Friends, Feed My Kids

As most of you know, I work over at momogic.com as Supervising Producer. The site has really taken off in the past ten months and last week, we launched a new community--kind of like a Facebook for moms.

I head up the adoption group... and also belong to others like local groups, blogging mamas, etc. There is something for every mom (and even dads)...and if there isn't, you can create it!

If you join right now, you'll be entered to win a Wii Fit. So come on over and let's chat!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

I Went Right!

For 4+ years, I've walked into kids' clothing stores and gone directly to the boys section. I always glanced over at the girls clothes and felt a pang... not to say I don't LOVE how fun it is to shop for boys... all that khaki and navy blue... but I always dreamed of stopping by the little ladies area too.

Today, in our local over-priced-yet-adorable kids' clothing store--where the boys are to the left and girls to the right--I walked in, bee-lined for the boys section...stoppped and exclaimed, "oh my God, I can go right!

And boy did I ever.

I Went Right!

For 4+ years, I've walked into kids' clothing stores and gone directly to the boys section. I always glanced over at the girls clothes and felt a pang... not to say I don't LOVE how fun it is to shop for boys... all that khaki and navy blue... but I always dreamed of stopping by the little ladies area too.

Today, in our local over-priced-yet-adorable kids' clothing store--where the boys are to the left and girls to the right--I walked in, bee-lined for the boys section...stoppped and exclaimed, "oh my God, I can go right!

And boy did I ever.

What Do Happy Parents Look Like?

This.

Here we are moments after I told Jeff we got a travel date. Excuse the appearance, life-changing news doesn't always happen during hair and makeup hours.

What Do Happy Parents Look Like?

This.

Here we are moments after I told Jeff we got a travel date. Excuse the appearance, life-changing news doesn't always happen during hair and makeup hours.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Sweet Dreams

Lucy's big girl bed arrived today. We'll see if she stays in her crib (fingers crossed), but at least we're prepared! Her room has really come together... J walked in and said "how pretty!"

We leave in 19 days!

Sweet Dreams

Lucy's big girl bed arrived today. We'll see if she stays in her crib (fingers crossed), but at least we're prepared! Her room has really come together... J walked in and said "how pretty!"

We leave in 19 days!

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

BK (before kids), I would often head out for a night with the ladies. We'd talk about anything and everything, offer support and laughs, and celebrate big events. It occurred to me yesterday that, although I do try to reconnect with my gals as much as possible, bloggy friends offer some of those same perks.

After I announced our travel date, I saw posts all over the place celebrating our good news. Ramona cheered, Tiff hooted, Marina partied, Andrea put up balloons, Tamara did a jig, Tisra screamed, and Courtney cried happy tears... Thank you, ladies!

Throughout this journey, I've met some of the most incredible women... some face-to-face and some via the Web. We've laughed, cried and offered a eye. (Hey, it's the Internet...we can't as well offer an ear, silly.)

So this post is dedicated to all of those I've met along the way. I look forward to the CA kids growing up together and eventually seeing those across the country we've yet to meet.


Speaking of friends across the country. Sarah, the first adopting mom to make me second guess Lucy's room decor (check this out), sent our little monkey some VERY appropriate goodies seen here. Thanks Sarah!

And Judy K! She's known for zipping through the court process faster than anyone. (wait, did WE just beat your record?) She sent Lucy these adorable shoes, very functional bib, and leg warmers! I was wondering what Lucy would wear on Mac Family '80s night. Thanks Judy!

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

BK (before kids), I would often head out for a night with the ladies. We'd talk about anything and everything, offer support and laughs, and celebrate big events. It occurred to me yesterday that, although I do try to reconnect with my gals as much as possible, bloggy friends offer some of those same perks.

After I announced our travel date, I saw posts all over the place celebrating our good news. Ramona cheered, Tiff hooted, Marina partied, Andrea put up balloons, Tamara did a jig, Tisra screamed, and Courtney cried happy tears... Thank you, ladies!

Throughout this journey, I've met some of the most incredible women... some face-to-face and some via the Web. We've laughed, cried and offered a eye. (Hey, it's the Internet...we can't as well offer an ear, silly.)

So this post is dedicated to all of those I've met along the way. I look forward to the CA kids growing up together and eventually seeing those across the country we've yet to meet.


Speaking of friends across the country. Sarah, the first adopting mom to make me second guess Lucy's room decor (check this out), sent our little monkey some VERY appropriate goodies seen here. Thanks Sarah!

And Judy K! She's known for zipping through the court process faster than anyone. (wait, did WE just beat your record?) She sent Lucy these adorable shoes, very functional bib, and leg warmers! I was wondering what Lucy would wear on Mac Family '80s night. Thanks Judy!

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

BK (before kids), I would often head out for a night with the ladies. We'd talk about anything and everything, offer support and laughs, and celebrate big events. It occurred to me yesterday that, although I do try to reconnect with my gals as much as possible, bloggy friends offer some of those same perks.

After I announced our travel date, I saw posts all over the place celebrating our good news. Ramona cheered, Tiff hooted, Marina partied, Andrea put up balloons, Tamara did a jig, Tisra screamed, and Courtney cried happy tears... Thank you, ladies!

Throughout this journey, I've met some of the most incredible women... some face-to-face and some via the Web. We've laughed, cried and offered a eye. (Hey, it's the Internet...we can't as well offer an ear, silly.)

So this post is dedicated to all of those I've met along the way. I look forward to the CA kids growing up together and eventually seeing those across the country we've yet to meet.

Speaking of friends across the country. Sarah, the first adopting mom to make me second guess Lucy's room decor (check this out), sent our little monkey some VERY appropriate goodies seen here. Thanks Sarah!

And Judy K! She's known for zipping through the court process faster than anyone. (wait, did WE just beat your record?) She sent Lucy these adorable shoes, very functional bib, and leg warmers! I was wondering what Lucy would wear on Mac Family '80s night. Thanks Judy!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

UPDATE 8/13 6:55 p.m. It's still real! I barely slept last night...crazy with excitement! Tonight, it's all about booking flights, hotels, and collecting paperwork we'll need to bring on our travels.

Thanks for all the incredible comments! I so appreciate every one of you.



I'm sitting here writing a post about Middle Child Day when I got an email from our agency...

WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We pick up Lucy on September 8th!!!!!!!

I am freaking OUT! Jeff is on his way home from work and I think I'll wait to tell him when he gets here. So while I will not post this until after I tell him, YOU are all getting me in the very moment I found out. THE MOMENT!!! I am the happiest mom alive! I can't believe it... we're going to bring Lucy HOME!

Thank you ALL for the incredible love and support... I don't know what we'd do without you! I have so many other posts in my head about gifts and thank yous and pictures and everything--I promise to get to all of it but, for right now... I am just living in this moment. Basking in this happiness and emotion.

Isn't this what people do when they win an Oscar...spew all of this emotional mumbo jumbo all over the place? Well, I have just won the Academy Award for parents. I have three beautiful children!! And they will be united after we pick her up in... (hold on, checking the calendar) 27 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I saw a shooting star this morning while I was out on a 5am run with my friend, Suzi...S, I didn't tell you this... but, at that moment, I knew it would be today.

P.P.S. OH NO! Maybe this middle child issue is real... I just hi-jacked the post all about him and made it all about his sister. CRAP!

P.P.P.S.: To my three children... I LOVE YOU! You are the most incredible gift and I thank God every single day that I am not only blessed to know you but that I have been chosen to be your mom. You make me proud. I look forward to the day where the three of you gang up on the two of us because you're so close and we're just so uncool.

Lucy, we're coming to get you, baby girl. Hold tight -- we're almost there. And when I get you in my arms, I'm not sure I'll ever let you go...

UPDATE: Jeff is home and the champagne is cracked! I don't imagine anyone is sleeping in this house tonight!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

UPDATE 8/13 6:55 p.m. It's still real! I barely slept last night...crazy with excitement! Tonight, it's all about booking flights, hotels, and collecting paperwork we'll need to bring on our travels.

Thanks for all the incredible comments! I so appreciate every one of you.



I'm sitting here writing a post about Middle Child Day when I got an email from our agency...

WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We pick up Lucy on September 8th!!!!!!!

I am freaking OUT! Jeff is on his way home from work and I think I'll wait to tell him when he gets here. So while I will not post this until after I tell him, YOU are all getting me in the very moment I found out. THE MOMENT!!! I am the happiest mom alive! I can't believe it... we're going to bring Lucy HOME!

Thank you ALL for the incredible love and support... I don't know what we'd do without you! I have so many other posts in my head about gifts and thank yous and pictures and everything--I promise to get to all of it but, for right now... I am just living in this moment. Basking in this happiness and emotion.

Isn't this what people do when they win an Oscar...spew all of this emotional mumbo jumbo all over the place? Well, I have just won the Academy Award for parents. I have three beautiful children!! And they will be united after we pick her up in... (hold on, checking the calendar) 27 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I saw a shooting star this morning while I was out on a 5am run with my friend, Suzi...S, I didn't tell you this... but, at that moment, I knew it would be today.

P.P.S. OH NO! Maybe this middle child issue is real... I just hi-jacked the post all about him and made it all about his sister. CRAP!

P.P.P.S.: To my three children... I LOVE YOU! You are the most incredible gift and I thank God every single day that I am not only blessed to know you but that I have been chosen to be your mom. You make me proud. I look forward to the day where the three of you gang up on the two of us because you're so close and we're just so uncool.

Lucy, we're coming to get you, baby girl. Hold tight -- we're almost there. And when I get you in my arms, I'm not sure I'll ever let you go...

UPDATE: Jeff is home and the champagne is cracked! I don't imagine anyone is sleeping in this house tonight!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

UPDATE 8/13 6:55 p.m. It's still real! I barely slept last night...crazy with excitement! Tonight, it's all about booking flights, hotels, and collecting paperwork we'll need to bring on our travels.
Thanks for all the incredible comments! I so appreciate every one of you.

I'm sitting here writing a post about Middle Child Day when I got an email from our agency...

WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We pick up Lucy on September 8th!!!!!!!

I am freaking OUT! Jeff is on his way home from work and I think I'll wait to tell him when he gets here. So while I will not post this until after I tell him, YOU are all getting me in the very moment I found out. THE MOMENT!!! I am the happiest mom alive! I can't believe it... we're going to bring Lucy HOME!

Thank you ALL for the incredible love and support... I don't know what we'd do without you! I have so many other posts in my head about gifts and thank yous and pictures and everything--I promise to get to all of it but, for right now... I am just living in this moment. Basking in this happiness and emotion.

Isn't this what people do when they win an Oscar...spew all of this emotional mumbo jumbo all over the place? Well, I have just won the Academy Award for parents. I have three beautiful children!! And they will be united after we pick her up in... (hold on, checking the calendar) 27 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I saw a shooting star this morning while I was out on a 5am run with my friend, Suzi...S, I didn't tell you this... but, at that moment, I knew it would be today.

P.P.S. OH NO! Maybe this middle child issue is real... I just hi-jacked the post all about him and made it all about his sister. CRAP!

P.P.P.S.: To my three children... I LOVE YOU! You are the most incredible gift and I thank God every single day that I am not only blessed to know you but that I have been chosen to be your mom. You make me proud. I look forward to the day where the three of you gang up on the two of us because you're so close and we're just so uncool.

Lucy, we're coming to get you, baby girl. Hold tight -- we're almost there. And when I get you in my arms, I'm not sure I'll ever let you go...

UPDATE: Jeff is home and the champagne is cracked! I don't imagine anyone is sleeping in this house tonight!

National Middle Child Day

As I was searching the Internet, I discovered that today is National Middle Child Day. Up until now, that would have never affected me. Here I am, the 11th of 13 kids and married to a man who has only one sibling.

But, as of a week ago, I now have a middle child. I feel fortunate that my middle child is laid back enough to let me interact with others yet such a presence that he'll never fade into the background. I was taking some shots of Jeff over the weekend for the next Song Fu contest and my middle child climbed right up and said "cheese!" How can you not want to munch on those cheeks?


There are lots of tips out there for parents of a middle child.

1. Never compare your children to one another.
2. Treat each accomplishment individually and be sure to give proper attention to each.
3. Give your children a chance to try different things individually to find their own unique talents.
4. Make one-on-one time for each child.
5. Never tell one child that he is better or more talented than another.
6. Show equality among the children- make the rules the same and the expectations the same.
7. Show as much love as possible to all of your children.
8. Celebrate Middle Child Day.

My middle child is hilariously funny, sweeter than anyone, and passionately opinionated. I love you, my little Bubbakins.

National Middle Child Day

As I was searching the Internet, I discovered that today is National Middle Child Day. Up until now, that would have never affected me. Here I am, the 11th of 13 kids and married to a man who has only one sibling.

But, as of a week ago, I now have a middle child. I feel fortunate that my middle child is laid back enough to let me interact with others yet such a presence that he'll never fade into the background. I was taking some shots of Jeff over the weekend for the next Song Fu contest and my middle child climbed right up and said "cheese!" How can you not want to munch on those cheeks?


There are lots of tips out there for parents of a middle child.

1. Never compare your children to one another.
2. Treat each accomplishment individually and be sure to give proper attention to each.
3. Give your children a chance to try different things individually to find their own unique talents.
4. Make one-on-one time for each child.
5. Never tell one child that he is better or more talented than another.
6. Show equality among the children- make the rules the same and the expectations the same.
7. Show as much love as possible to all of your children.
8. Celebrate Middle Child Day.

My middle child is hilariously funny, sweeter than anyone, and passionately opinionated. I love you, my little Bubbakins.

National Middle Child Day

As I was searching the Internet, I discovered that today is National Middle Child Day. Up until now, that would have never affected me. Here I am, the 11th of 13 kids and married to a man who has only one sibling.

But, as of a week ago, I now have a middle child. I feel fortunate that my middle child is laid back enough to let me interact with others yet such a presence that he'll never fade into the background. I was taking some shots of Jeff over the weekend for the next Song Fu contest and my middle child climbed right up and said "cheese!" How can you not want to munch on those cheeks?


There are lots of tips out there for parents of a middle child.

1. Never compare your children to one another.
2. Treat each accomplishment individually and be sure to give proper attention to each.
3. Give your children a chance to try different things individually to find their own unique talents.
4. Make one-on-one time for each child.
5. Never tell one child that he is better or more talented than another.
6. Show equality among the children- make the rules the same and the expectations the same.
7. Show as much love as possible to all of your children.
8. Celebrate Middle Child Day.

My middle child is hilariously funny, sweeter than anyone, and passionately opinionated. I love you, my little Bubbakins.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

These are my siblings. Yes, I have THAT many siblings (13 of us total). Here we are with my parents and new bro in law at my sister's wedding last week. Lucy's going to have a lot of names to learn...on my side of the family alone, she has nine aunts, 11 uncles and 28 cousins.


You know what's really cool? Since the birth of my mother in 1935, Lucy will be the 62nd person to enter our family. And it's incredible that even after all the children who've come into our family over the years, everyone is still excited to meet the newest member of the clan. And yippee, they won't have to wait too much longer!

Not to be outdone on the excited part... the Mac side of the family. On Jeff's side, Lucy has...well, an uncle. Here's Scott!


And here he is with Auntie Pam. What they lack in numbers, they make up for with fun, lots of love and they're geographically desirable--living in CA!



We hope to have some Grandma and Grandpa pics to add when we see them later this month. Until then, enjoy our east coast adventure--in photos.

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

These are my siblings. Yes, I have THAT many siblings (13 of us total). Here we are with my parents and new bro in law at my sister's wedding last week. Lucy's going to have a lot of names to learn...on my side of the family alone, she has nine aunts, 11 uncles and 28 cousins.


You know what's really cool? Since the birth of my mother in 1935, Lucy will be the 62nd person to enter our family. And it's incredible that even after all the children who've come into our family over the years, everyone is still excited to meet the newest member of the clan. And yippee, they won't have to wait too much longer!

Not to be outdone on the excited part... the Mac side of the family. On Jeff's side, Lucy has...well, an uncle. Here's Scott!


And here he is with Auntie Pam. What they lack in numbers, they make up for with fun, lots of love and they're geographically desirable--living in CA!



We hope to have some Grandma and Grandpa pics to add when we see them later this month. Until then, enjoy our east coast adventure--in photos.

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

These are my siblings. Yes, I have THAT many siblings (13 of us total). Here we are with my parents and new bro in law at my sister's wedding last week. Lucy's going to have a lot of names to learn...on my side of the family alone, she has nine aunts, 11 uncles and 28 cousins.


You know what's really cool? Since the birth of my mother in 1935, Lucy will be the 62nd person to enter our family. And it's incredible that even after all the children who've come into our family over the years, everyone is still excited to meet the newest member of the clan. And yippee, they won't have to wait too much longer!

Not to be outdone on the excited part... the Mac side of the family. On Jeff's side, Lucy has...well, an uncle. Here's Scott!


And here he is with Auntie Pam. What they lack in numbers, they make up for with fun, lots of love and they're geographically desirable--living in CA!



We hope to have some Grandma and Grandpa pics to add when we see them later this month. Until then, enjoy our east coast adventure--in photos.

Reading is Evil

We took the kids to dinner yesterday. And in an effort to get J to try something different, I said, "They have quesadillas, grilled cheese, or spaghetti." He looked at me like I had three heads, points directly at the menu and said, "They have chicken nuggets too. It says it right there!"



This 4-year-old really needs to stop with the books.

Reading is Evil

We took the kids to dinner yesterday. And in an effort to get J to try something different, I said, "They have quesadillas, grilled cheese, or spaghetti." He looked at me like I had three heads, points directly at the menu and said, "They have chicken nuggets too. It says it right there!"



This 4-year-old really needs to stop with the books.

Reading is Evil

We took the kids to dinner yesterday. And in an effort to get J to try something different, I said, "They have quesadillas, grilled cheese, or spaghetti." He looked at me like I had three heads, points directly at the menu and said, "They have chicken nuggets too. It says it right there!"



This 4-year-old really needs to stop with the books.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

How Hip Am I?

I've been checking out all the baby carrier options out there for carrying Lucy around Taiwan. I don't want to buy one with only the ability to face out and I'm not ready to carry her around on my back and not be able to see her and connect. We checked out the Ergo, which is excellent, but we already have a something similar that straps on the back for down the road. I wanted something to promote bonding, allow me to carry her on my hip and also give me hands free--to do things like make bottles, upload photos or (if I'm really honest with myself) sign credit card slips. Come on, you think I'm not going to buy anything while we're in Taiwan??

We went to Babies R Us today and bought lots of the needed toddler stuff AND we stopped by the local furniture store and found a bed for her room! For those of you who think "bed" means crib... I'm not THAT bad. We've had a crib in there for months but she climbs out and I want to be sure we have a bed to move into (in case) as well as a place for me to sleep, if necessary.



Anyway, while we were there, we came across the Playtex Hip Hammock. It's nothing fancy and reasonably priced. I actually figured I'd be bringing it back once we got it home and tested it. But hey, look at that! It's relatively comfortable and, while it says up to 35 lbs, I put a 44 pound 4-year-old in it. (He was actually pretty bummed to get out.) So I think we'll be just fine around town with a 17 pound peanut strapped in.

How Hip Am I?

I've been checking out all the baby carrier options out there for carrying Lucy around Taiwan. I don't want to buy one with only the ability to face out and I'm not ready to carry her around on my back and not be able to see her and connect. We checked out the Ergo, which is excellent, but we already have a something similar that straps on the back for down the road. I wanted something to promote bonding, allow me to carry her on my hip and also give me hands free--to do things like make bottles, upload photos or (if I'm really honest with myself) sign credit card slips. Come on, you think I'm not going to buy anything while we're in Taiwan??

We went to Babies R Us today and bought lots of the needed toddler stuff AND we stopped by the local furniture store and found a bed for her room! For those of you who think "bed" means crib... I'm not THAT bad. We've had a crib in there for months but she climbs out and I want to be sure we have a bed to move into (in case) as well as a place for me to sleep, if necessary.



Anyway, while we were there, we came across the Playtex Hip Hammock. It's nothing fancy and reasonably priced. I actually figured I'd be bringing it back once we got it home and tested it. But hey, look at that! It's relatively comfortable and, while it says up to 35 lbs, I put a 44 pound 4-year-old in it. (He was actually pretty bummed to get out.) So I think we'll be just fine around town with a 17 pound peanut strapped in.

How Hip Am I?

I've been checking out all the baby carrier options out there for carrying Lucy around Taiwan. I don't want to buy one with only the ability to face out and I'm not ready to carry her around on my back and not be able to see her and connect. We checked out the Ergo, which is excellent, but we already have a something similar that straps on the back for down the road. I wanted something to promote bonding, allow me to carry her on my hip and also give me hands free--to do things like make bottles, upload photos or (if I'm really honest with myself) sign credit card slips. Come on, you think I'm not going to buy anything while we're in Taiwan??

We went to Babies R Us today and bought lots of the needed toddler stuff AND we stopped by the local furniture store and found a bed for her room! For those of you who think "bed" means crib... I'm not THAT bad. We've had a crib in there for months but she climbs out and I want to be sure we have a bed to move into (in case) as well as a place for me to sleep, if necessary.



Anyway, while we were there, we came across the Playtex Hip Hammock. It's nothing fancy and reasonably priced. I actually figured I'd be bringing it back once we got it home and tested it. But hey, look at that! It's relatively comfortable and, while it says up to 35 lbs, I put a 44 pound 4-year-old in it. (He was actually pretty bummed to get out.) So I think we'll be just fine around town with a 17 pound peanut strapped in.

Friday, August 8, 2008

Laundry Rocks!



No, I haven't lost my mind... I'm just tickled pink (had to say it) at all the girlie things in my laundry basket these days! We're preparing for Lucy's arrival and now her clothes are all washed and folded and ready to be packed. (although we haven't bought the outfit for the big day yet)

Talk to me in a few months when I'm up to my ears in dirty clothes--a family of five gets pretty darn messy! But, for now, I'm just thrilled that the pink clothes that come out of the wash aren't a product of accidentally mixing Jeff's new red shirt with our whites.

Laundry Rocks!



No, I haven't lost my mind... I'm just tickled pink (had to say it) at all the girlie things in my laundry basket these days! We're preparing for Lucy's arrival and now her clothes are all washed and folded and ready to be packed. (although we haven't bought the outfit for the big day yet)

Talk to me in a few months when I'm up to my ears in dirty clothes--a family of five gets pretty darn messy! But, for now, I'm just thrilled that the pink clothes that come out of the wash aren't a product of accidentally mixing Jeff's new red shirt with our whites.

Laundry Rocks!



No, I haven't lost my mind... I'm just tickled pink (had to say it) at all the girlie things in my laundry basket these days! We're preparing for Lucy's arrival and now her clothes are all washed and folded and ready to be packed. (although we haven't bought the outfit for the big day yet)

Talk to me in a few months when I'm up to my ears in dirty clothes--a family of five gets pretty darn messy! But, for now, I'm just thrilled that the pink clothes that come out of the wash aren't a product of accidentally mixing Jeff's new red shirt with our whites.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Are You a Survivor?


Due to popular demand... (ok, just Gracyn's mom Tiffanie) we've created our own store on Cafe Press. We have lots of cool ideas for adoption-related tees and such but decided to start with something everyone can appreciate...our crazy long wait for Miss Lucy! So go on over and buy a tee, hat, mug or bib--for adults and kids of all ages!

**All proceeds from the sale of these items will go to help another adopting family bring home their little boy. Noah's at SLC with Lucy and his parents have been working hard to raise enough funds to bring him home. If you'd like to make a donation, click chip in.

Are You a Survivor?


Due to popular demand... (ok, just Gracyn's mom Tiffanie) we've created our own store on Cafe Press. We have lots of cool ideas for adoption-related tees and such but decided to start with something everyone can appreciate...our crazy long wait for Miss Lucy! So go on over and buy a tee, hat, mug or bib--for adults and kids of all ages!

**All proceeds from the sale of these items will go to help another adopting family bring home their little boy. Noah's at SLC with Lucy and his parents have been working hard to raise enough funds to bring him home. If you'd like to make a donation, click chip in.

Are You a Survivor?


Due to popular demand... (ok, just Gracyn's mom Tiffanie) we've created our own store on Cafe Press. We have lots of cool ideas for adoption-related tees and such but decided to start with something everyone can appreciate...our crazy long wait for Miss Lucy! So go on over and buy a tee, hat, mug or bib--for adults and kids of all ages!

**All proceeds from the sale of these items will go to help another adopting family bring home their little boy. Noah's at SLC with Lucy and his parents have been working hard to raise enough funds to bring him home. If you'd like to make a donation, click chip in.

Pinch Me...

I am still in disbelief that we're inching closer to bringing Lucy home. One minute, it's like nothing's changed...and the next, I'm weeping to songs on the radio. Do you have any idea how many songs have the word baby in them? While I think the songwriters intended the lyrics to be of the romantic variety, they take on entirely new meaning these days.

It's been a while since I was excited to buy bottles and diapers! And when someone said recently, "but you just got your little one out of diapers and now you have to go back there," I said "I KNOW!" a bit more excitedly than they expected. Because unless you're here, in this moment... you really don't know how INCREDIBLE the thought of diapers and bottles and all that comes with it really is.

While we were on vacation, we met this artist in Gloucester who does really great work and purchased a little something for Lucy's room. She painted part of it in Bali and the rest in New England. I found it fitting that the painting is like our family--fits perfectly when completed from different parts of the world. J has been so looking forward to putting it up and last night, he did the honors. I've also started to organize her room--it's become kind of a second play area for the boys so we had to pull out the train table. They were excited to help prepare for their little sister's arrival. We moved things around to make way for a bed...which we'll probably buy this weekend.

Don't go anywhere... this is the part of our journey that gets really interesting!

Pinch Me...

I am still in disbelief that we're inching closer to bringing Lucy home. One minute, it's like nothing's changed...and the next, I'm weeping to songs on the radio. Do you have any idea how many songs have the word baby in them? While I think the songwriters intended the lyrics to be of the romantic variety, they take on entirely new meaning these days.

It's been a while since I was excited to buy bottles and diapers! And when someone said recently, "but you just got your little one out of diapers and now you have to go back there," I said "I KNOW!" a bit more excitedly than they expected. Because unless you're here, in this moment... you really don't know how INCREDIBLE the thought of diapers and bottles and all that comes with it really is.

While we were on vacation, we met this artist in Gloucester who does really great work and purchased a little something for Lucy's room. She painted part of it in Bali and the rest in New England. I found it fitting that the painting is like our family--fits perfectly when completed from different parts of the world. J has been so looking forward to putting it up and last night, he did the honors. I've also started to organize her room--it's become kind of a second play area for the boys so we had to pull out the train table. They were excited to help prepare for their little sister's arrival. We moved things around to make way for a bed...which we'll probably buy this weekend.

Don't go anywhere... this is the part of our journey that gets really interesting!

Pinch Me...

I am still in disbelief that we're inching closer to bringing Lucy home. One minute, it's like nothing's changed...and the next, I'm weeping to songs on the radio. Do you have any idea how many songs have the word baby in them? While I think the songwriters intended the lyrics to be of the romantic variety, they take on entirely new meaning these days.

It's been a while since I was excited to buy bottles and diapers! And when someone said recently, "but you just got your little one out of diapers and now you have to go back there," I said "I KNOW!" a bit more excitedly than they expected. Because unless you're here, in this moment... you really don't know how INCREDIBLE the thought of diapers and bottles and all that comes with it really is.

While we were on vacation, we met this artist in Gloucester who does really great work and purchased a little something for Lucy's room. She painted part of it in Bali and the rest in New England. I found it fitting that the painting is like our family--fits perfectly when completed from different parts of the world. J has been so looking forward to putting it up and last night, he did the honors. I've also started to organize her room--it's become kind of a second play area for the boys so we had to pull out the train table. They were excited to help prepare for their little sister's arrival. We moved things around to make way for a bed...which we'll probably buy this weekend.

Don't go anywhere... this is the part of our journey that gets really interesting!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

The post 10+ months in the making is here.

WE GOT OUR FIRST DECREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It feels so odd to even be able to type those words. I've dreamed of this moment for what feels like FOREVER...

As big bro J so proudly shared with his grandparents today, "the judge says Lucy is my sister now."

I have so much more to say but it's been a long day that included a cross country flight with two (ok one) rambunctious boy. (the other was an angel the whole flight...)

Lucy is OURS... we have a DAUGHTER! Now, after a 10-day mandatory waiting period, we will get the final ruling and a TRAVEL DATE!

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

The post 10+ months in the making is here.

WE GOT OUR FIRST DECREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It feels so odd to even be able to type those words. I've dreamed of this moment for what feels like FOREVER...

As big bro J so proudly shared with his grandparents today, "the judge says Lucy is my sister now."

I have so much more to say but it's been a long day that included a cross country flight with two (ok one) rambunctious boy. (the other was an angel the whole flight...)

Lucy is OURS... we have a DAUGHTER! Now, after a 10-day mandatory waiting period, we will get the final ruling and a TRAVEL DATE!

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

The post 10+ months in the making is here.

WE GOT OUR FIRST DECREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It feels so odd to even be able to type those words. I've dreamed of this moment for what feels like FOREVER...

As big bro J so proudly shared with his grandparents today, "the judge says Lucy is my sister now."

I have so much more to say but it's been a long day that included a cross country flight with two (ok one) rambunctious boy. (the other was an angel the whole flight...)

Lucy is OURS... we have a DAUGHTER! Now, after a 10-day mandatory waiting period, we will get the final ruling and a TRAVEL DATE!

Monday, August 4, 2008

The East Coast Tour Nears the End...

We've done so much over the past week plus... and it's all winding down today. Tomorrow, we'll hop on a plane and head back to CA. (I admit I'm a bit stressed with the recent shaking happening there.)

We've had a great time seeing family on both sides--the boys got to reconnect with aunts, uncles and cousins and met some on Jeff's side of the family. The boys also got to spend the night at their east coast pals' house while we enjoyed a grownups-only wedding. (the best kind of wedding in my opinion :) I'll have a slide show of our trip soon... it's been quite an adventure.

With all the speedy news a few weeks ago, I was convinced that we'd be heading back west with a first decree. It looks like that's not going to happen. I keep reminding myself that this is the last trip we'll take without her. Each day without news is harder than the last...

When we do get the good news, we'll definitely be ready to dress her! Lucy's received so many fun outfits from our family and friends on the east coast.

Thanks to Nana and Grampy, Tim & Jenn and the kids, and the Contes for the adorable gifts! I couldn't help myself and had to add a couple of Red Sox outfits too. :)

Here's to a new week with promise of some good news... keep your fingers crossed!