Taiwan On

The Siblings Meet!

2008-09-11T10:00:00.000-07:00

We made it home! Lucy was fantastic on the plane—she slept a lot of it. The car seat, however? She's not a big fan.

We came home to two excited boys (and an exhausted Nana). They planned a party, complete with princess decorations and a cake! We're all pretty jet lagged... in fact, she and Daddy are still sleeping...

Yu-Ting's Law

2008-09-09T00:00:00.000-07:00

We spent the morning at AIT getting Lucy (the artist formerly known as Yu-Ting) her visa (to go to the US, not shopping, of course). We arrived promptly at 7:45, handed over our cameras and phones to the very serious man at the counter, skipped through the metal detectors and zipped on up to the third floor. After a surprisingly non-stressful passing of the paperwork, we sat and waited an hour and a half for our turn to be interviewed.

During our wait, Lucy walked holding Daddy and Mommy's hand (big step from constantly being carried), smiled, laughed (I did it this time!), blew kisses, and actually kissed me! Jeff and I realized that if we kiss each other and then go in for one from her, she'll oblige.

Of course, the one place during our trip that no cameras were allowed--she decides to show her stuff. And, another funny thing happened at the American Institute in Taiwan... another adopting family--the gorgeous Emma and her parents--were waiting as well. I hadn't seen them sitting on the other side of Jeff until I heard, "is that Lucy?" -- yes, my little Internet star was spotted and recognized from the blog! I have to give Emma's mom, Eva, a shout out here. Nice to meet you today!

After that, we headed on over to meet Uncle Joe. Yes, an actual uncle! My brother-in-law (of 30+ years together with my sister) happens to be on business in Taipei. We were able to see him for a few minutes before his meeting. Guess who saw him and immediately wanted to be held? Yup, it's true.

After we met for a while, Lucy decided it was time to go and literally walked Jeff out to the car. Problem: it wasn't a taxi so Mommy and Daddy had to put the kibbosh on that.

We stopped off for a little lunch on the way back to our room. Man, that little one loves food! (hmmm... a temper, loves food--starting to sound familiar...)

Back at the room, things got a little hard for her... I think she really likes to be outside, experiencing all the things she's never seen. When we're locked in a room, she's reminded of how scary this all is for her. We try to comfort her but it just breaks my heart. I know I can't make it all go away but we're doing everything we can to let her know we love her and we're here for good. The silver lining... all that fussing leads to very restful naps.

Gaining a Daughter, Losing a Husband

2008-09-08T13:35:00.000-07:00

OK, he's toast. Done. Wrapped around her tiny little finger.

I am SHOCKED at how well the first day has gone. As long as Lucy is with Jeff, she's OK. He held her while I fed her some dinner. (Hey, J/B - she eats VEGETABLES and FRUIT. You're next.) She will play little peek-a-boo games, although a little timid. She slept for an hour in the crib and then when she woke up, she wanted Daddy and slept with us all night -- half of it lying on his chest.

I woke up at one point (OK, 500 times to check on her) and she was rubbing my arm with her hand and when I looked at her, she waved to me. It was the cutest thing in the middle of the night!

I know we have a long road ahead and a lot of work to do before she's really OK, but I expected this day to be so much harder. I'm so proud of her. I know she's sad and confused by it all but she's such a strong little girl.

Maybe today she'll actually let me hold her.

More pics to come... I promise.

THE Post One Year in the Making...

2008-09-08T03:59:00.000-07:00

She's ours! This has been the most breathtaking, life-changing (and exhausting) day EVER!

Where do I begin? We got to SLC at 10 a.m., along with Tami and Bobby. Around 10:15, there she was... WOW, she's even cuter than she was in May. I immediately offered her the bracelet of mine she liked to play with three months ago. She was happy about that. She was definitely overwhelmed and a little upset with the situation. In fact, there was only one thing that caught her attention and would soothe her instantly. Her Dad. It was UNBELIEVABLE. She lunged out of my arms and into his, and hasn't left them since.

We left SLC and took a cab back to the hotel for our things and onto the High Speed Rail. She did well as long as Daddy was holding her. And then, it happened. 5 hours after we were united, she gave her dad a big old smile and giggle. I think he may have melted.

We got to Taipei and checked in and she had a little nap.

She's the most beautiful little girl I've ever seen. I can't wait to get her home to her brothers.

And, for those of you still waiting--the reality is WAY better than the dream.

The Last Breakfast

2008-09-07T16:27:00.000-07:00

Haha... nothing gets by you guys! Yes, Jeff shaved the goatee. We figure Lucy sees very few men that a 6'5" hairy one could be pretty scary!

The Day Leading Up to Our Daughter...

2008-09-07T08:18:00.000-07:00

Many people have asked me how we're able to be in Taiwan without running over to SLC and scooping up Lucy. Well, as difficult as it is... and it REALLY is... we've learned over the past four years that we don't often get time as a couple. So we enjoyed today exploring the birth country and city where our daughter spent the first 19 months of her life. The people have been just wonderful--I think with Jeff's height and my freckles and blue eyes, people don't know what to do with us!

In our 48 hours pre-Lucy, we've napped, eaten, shopped a bit, did some sightseeing, found a night market, got massages at the hotel spa, and video chatted with the boys as much as we could. We even got to have a long breakfast with Tami and Bobby--Noah's parents! We'll grab a car with them in the morning and pick up our babes at the same time. I can't wait!

10 hours, little girl!

24 Hours!

2008-09-06T19:00:00.000-07:00

Forget counting the days... we're down to hours, people!

The moment we've been holding our breathe waiting for is really going to happen... stay tuned.

Foreign What?

2008-09-05T21:56:00.000-07:00

For those of you who are nervous to fly half-way around the world to pick up your little one, let me set your mind at ease.

We got off the plane... spent approx 3 minutes going through the customs process... grabbed a cab quite easily... grabbed Starbucks (yup, they've taken over here, too)...got two tickets for a train leaving in 15 minutes... took a 90 minute clean, quiet ride... grabbed another cab (hint, bring the name of the hotel written in Chinese--BIG help)... and ended up in the hotel lobby by 8:30 a.m.

The people here are so helpful -- from those in the airport pointing to where the cabs are before we even asked, to the lady at the train station who, not only told us where to wait, but stood up before our stop to point it out so we didn't miss it.

The hotel checked us in at 10 a.m. -- five hours before their check-in time. We ordered big, fat burgers and watched some of the LA Dodger game on TV. (the Yankees were on too but anyone who knows me knows I'd never be THAT homesick for baseball.)

We showered, got ready... and then realized... man, we're tired!

So we'll spend the rest of the afternoon doing a little lounging, a bit of shopping at the huge department store right next door... and call it an early night.

Somewhere, not too far from here, is our daughter spending the last moments with the most incredible caregivers and sweet little friends. I hope she has some idea that, while her life will be a huge adjustment, we're so in love with her and can't wait to be her forever Mommy and Daddy.

45 hours to go...

The parents have landed!

2008-09-05T15:34:00.001-07:00

We're here! Flight was perfect. I am posting this from a taxi heading to the train. You've got to love technology. Nana, if you are reading this, call the number I left on the fridge.

The parents have landed!

2008-09-05T15:34:00.000-07:00

We're here! Flight was perfect. I am posting this from a taxi heading to the train. You've got to love technology. Nana, if you are reading this, call the number I left on the fridge.

Family of Four

2008-09-04T19:53:00.001-07:00

This is the very last time you can call us that. We're off to the
airport!

Family of Four

2008-09-04T19:53:00.000-07:00

This is the very last time you can call us that. We're off to the
airport!

What a Day!

2008-09-02T20:18:00.001-07:00

So there I was, minding my own business at work, when an impromptu meeting was called. Imagine my surprise when I walked into the conference room just busting with pink, pink, pink! There were my co-workers with a surprise baby shower...complete with pastries and champagne! It was fantastic--adorable pink fortune cookie boxes and pink paper lanterns. I just LOVED it!

Check out some of the beautiful gifts. Lucy is already a fixture at momlogic.com!

Lucy is going to be the best-dressed girl in Southern California. And, check out the books in one pic... they're children's stories in both English and Mandarin. How cool is that? And, not to be left out--even the boys, Jeff and I got cool surprises out of the deal!

Thanks to my fabulous co-workers and friends at momlogic!

What a Day!

2008-09-02T20:18:00.000-07:00

Check out some of the beautiful gifts. Lucy is already a fixture at momlogic.com!

What Do You Mean I'm Not Pregnant?

2008-09-01T17:02:00.001-07:00

Let's see... I've got a head cold, yet I'm bouncing off the walls here organizing toys and closets, straightening up everything from the kids' stuff, to my own clothes (some I haven't seen in years), to our kitchen pantry——doing the whole out-with-the-old, in-with-the-new.

Isn't that what they call 'nesting'? And don't women do it right before going into labor?

Just sayin'.

Oh, and if you want some goosebumps or big, fat tears on your face... go to Tiff's blog and see the moment it all began with Gracyn. Congrats to the family of FOUR!

P.S. Hey Lucy, if you happen to be reading by now and you're computer savvy, maybe you can see this. You're 19 months today, little girl. Remember this day, it's the very last time you'll get a month older without having your family there to celebrate. We're six days (and two hours, but who's counting?) away from the rest of our lives. Get some rest... you're gonna need it.

XOXO
Mommy

What Do You Mean I'm Not Pregnant?

2008-09-01T17:02:00.000-07:00

7 Days and Counting...

2008-08-31T20:06:00.001-07:00

It is 11 a.m. in Tainan right now... one week from this second, I will be the happiest mom in the world. Can you believe we've actually gotten to this point?

Tiffanie is with Gracyn as I type... AMAZING! And Lucy and Noah are the next to come home. The three of us moms have certainly spent enough time waiting.

The first glimpse of our daughter almost a year ago.

Speaking of waiting... for those of you who only know your kids via photos and monthly updates and feel like it will never happen——it will! And you know what? If you're anything like me, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time worrying and obsessing about moving forward when you could be doing all the things you said you'd do. Have I learned enough Mandarin? Uh, no. Did I freshen up on my sign language to make it easier? Hmmm, nope. Is my house completely organized from top to bottom before she gets here? Now that's just funny.

Someone said to me many months ago that I should not focus on when it's going to happen, but that it is going to happen. And that is the one thing that kept me going. It will happen for you, too. In fact, the wait—for me—has been like being pregnant... you wish it away at times but it's drawn me closer to Lucy, helped me look within myself for something I didn't even know I had, and has grown a love for the little girl who was meant to be with us.

That being said—kick, scream and cry when you need to. You deserve that too.

7 Days and Counting...

2008-08-31T20:06:00.000-07:00

The Next Best Thing...

2008-08-28T10:09:00.001-07:00

While we wait one more week before getting on the plane (yes, ONE more week!)... we get to celebrate the homecoming of another little one. This post is dedicated to Tiffanie and her sweet Gracyn. Tiff is just hours from jumping on a plane and FINALLY getting her little girl.

Tiff and I have emailed and chatted via phone for months now... she first saw Gracyn's photo last November and we both thought we were going to speed through the process. Remember the dream of traveling in February, Tiff? Well, here we are... our lives changing forever just a week apart from one another.

Go get her, Mom of TWO! We are so close to that dream of watching our princess costume-clad girls hitting Disneyland with our boys... it's within our reach.

The Next Best Thing...

2008-08-28T10:09:00.000-07:00

Kind of Like Hold Music...for Blogs

2008-08-26T21:23:00.001-07:00

I know I've been kind of quiet lately. Getting everything together, spending as much time with boys as I can and trying to get a little sleep in before the fabulous chaos ensues has kept me busy.

So I thought I would just do a post to tide you over until I've gotten my act together.

Here are some stories from momlogic that I thought you might find interesting...

One written by me:
Dear Christina Applegate...

And another by a very brave friend:
Mommy for 4 Months

Speaking of writing... I've gotten some funny emails from those wanting to take over the blog for me while we're busy with Lucy. Keep 'em coming! I would love to post all the entries over the weekend!

And, for a little reminiscing before we take off in 9 DAYS, here is a last peek at my video diary from my trip to Taiwan in May.

I've got a lot more to share but tough to get my head wrapped around it all...I'll have something new to say later in the week!

PS: You've got less than 48 hours to listen to Jeff's song and VOTE. Thanks for all the wonderful support!

Kind of Like Hold Music...for Blogs

2008-08-26T21:23:00.000-07:00

Two Weeks From This Very Moment...

2008-08-24T19:00:00.001-07:00

Need I say more?

Two Weeks From This Very Moment...

2008-08-24T19:00:00.000-07:00

Need I say more?

Writer for Hire

2008-08-23T06:42:00.001-07:00

Have you noticed how many, if not most, blogs tend to get pushed aside when the little ones come home? Of course they do--suddenly, mom is being pulled in so many directions, the first thing to go is the updates and photos.

Well, I have the perfect solution for that...

Taiwan Lucy is hiring! OK, so not really "hiring" since the position is unpaid... but think of the fun you'd have entertaining readers while I'm doing things like flying on an airplane, bonding with my daughter, and (the very important) trying to get some sleep. I admit, I have plans to keep the blog up. In fact, I plan to talk more about the realities of parenting, the challenges and struggles, and (what I assume will be) the always-interesting life with three kids 4-and-under.

What you need to do to enter: Write up a sample post (a paragraph or two would suffice) and send it to me at jmomac@mac.com -- the post would become my property and would possibly be posted on the blog along with others for voting. The ideal candidate has the ability to write posts that are funny, heartfelt, informational --and always entertaining.

Come on, people! Are you up for the TL challenge?

Writer for Hire

2008-08-23T06:42:00.000-07:00

11 Months Waiting

2008-08-21T19:30:00.001-07:00

It was (one month shy of) a year ago when we nervously walked into our agency office to see the photo of the baby girl who would become our daughter. While every month after that was met with sadness, this is the last time we will commemorate the month-i-versary with longing.

As you may recall, 11 is, in fact, my lucky number. So it's fitting that we would finally be united as a family after 11 months waiting.

It's also fitting that we become a family of five during September. All my life, September has been symbolic of sadness and loss——not only is it the month my mother was born——it's the month we lost her.

But the month of sadness changed that September in 2003, when I discovered I was pregnant with J. In 2005, it was the month B was born. And in 2007, we received the referral of our little Lucy. Now, we'll all be united in September. I know there's someone up there looking down and saying, "see, stop all the whining——September should be your favorite month."

Speaking of September, something compelled me to open up Lucy's referral file the other day to see when her own biological mother's birthday was. And there it was in black and white——September 5th...the day we leave for Taiwan.

I've learned throughout this journey that there really are no coincidences——just signs that we're moving in the right direction. After all, don't forget this one.

Oh, and get this one... my bro-in-law, Lucy's Godfather, has never been to Taiwan. In fact, I don't know that he ever goes out of the country on business. BUT he's going to be in Taipei on business the exact same time we're there. How crazy is that?
Two weeks from tonight, we're on our way!

11 Months Waiting

2008-08-21T19:30:00.000-07:00

He's At It Again...

2008-08-21T06:28:00.001-07:00

Jeff's in the next installment of the Song Fu competition. Go HERE to listen to his song and vote, vote, vote! (por favor)

He's At It Again...

2008-08-21T06:28:00.000-07:00

Jeff's in the next installment of the Song Fu competition. Go HERE to listen to his song and vote, vote, vote! (por favor)

Chat with Friends, Feed My Kids

2008-08-18T09:58:00.001-07:00

As most of you know, I work over at momogic.com as Supervising Producer. The site has really taken off in the past ten months and last week, we launched a new community--kind of like a Facebook for moms.

I head up the adoption group... and also belong to others like local groups, blogging mamas, etc. There is something for every mom (and even dads)...and if there isn't, you can create it!

If you join right now, you'll be entered to win a Wii Fit. So come on over and let's chat!

Chat with Friends, Feed My Kids

2008-08-18T09:58:00.000-07:00

I Went Right!

2008-08-17T19:33:00.001-07:00

For 4+ years, I've walked into kids' clothing stores and gone directly to the boys section. I always glanced over at the girls clothes and felt a pang... not to say I don't LOVE how fun it is to shop for boys... all that khaki and navy blue... but I always dreamed of stopping by the little ladies area too.

Today, in our local over-priced-yet-adorable kids' clothing store--where the boys are to the left and girls to the right--I walked in, bee-lined for the boys section...stoppped and exclaimed, "oh my God, I can go right!

And boy did I ever.

I Went Right!

2008-08-17T19:33:00.000-07:00

What Do Happy Parents Look Like?

2008-08-17T09:02:00.001-07:00

This.

Here we are moments after I told Jeff we got a travel date. Excuse the appearance, life-changing news doesn't always happen during hair and makeup hours.

What Do Happy Parents Look Like?

2008-08-17T09:02:00.000-07:00

This.

Here we are moments after I told Jeff we got a travel date. Excuse the appearance, life-changing news doesn't always happen during hair and makeup hours.

Sweet Dreams

2008-08-16T16:29:00.001-07:00

Lucy's big girl bed arrived today. We'll see if she stays in her crib (fingers crossed), but at least we're prepared! Her room has really come together... J walked in and said "how pretty!"

We leave in 19 days!

Sweet Dreams

2008-08-16T16:29:00.000-07:00

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

2008-08-16T05:00:00.002-07:00

BK (before kids), I would often head out for a night with the ladies. We'd talk about anything and everything, offer support and laughs, and celebrate big events. It occurred to me yesterday that, although I do try to reconnect with my gals as much as possible, bloggy friends offer some of those same perks.

After I announced our travel date, I saw posts all over the place celebrating our good news. Ramona cheered, Tiff hooted, Marina partied, Andrea put up balloons, Tamara did a jig, Tisra screamed, and Courtney cried happy tears... Thank you, ladies!

Throughout this journey, I've met some of the most incredible women... some face-to-face and some via the Web. We've laughed, cried and offered a eye. (Hey, it's the Internet...we can't as well offer an ear, silly.)

So this post is dedicated to all of those I've met along the way. I look forward to the CA kids growing up together and eventually seeing those across the country we've yet to meet.

Speaking of friends across the country. Sarah, the first adopting mom to make me second guess Lucy's room decor (check this out), sent our little monkey some VERY appropriate goodies seen here. Thanks Sarah!

And Judy K! She's known for zipping through the court process faster than anyone. (wait, did WE just beat your record?) She sent Lucy these adorable shoes, very functional bib, and leg warmers! I was wondering what Lucy would wear on Mac Family '80s night. Thanks Judy!

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

2008-08-16T05:00:00.001-07:00

Blogging Is the New Girls Night Out

2008-08-16T05:00:00.000-07:00

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

2008-08-12T21:37:00.002-07:00

UPDATE 8/13 6:55 p.m. It's still real! I barely slept last night...crazy with excitement! Tonight, it's all about booking flights, hotels, and collecting paperwork we'll need to bring on our travels.

Thanks for all the incredible comments! I so appreciate every one of you.

I'm sitting here writing a post about Middle Child Day when I got an email from our agency...

WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We pick up Lucy on September 8th!!!!!!!

I am freaking OUT! Jeff is on his way home from work and I think I'll wait to tell him when he gets here. So while I will not post this until after I tell him, YOU are all getting me in the very moment I found out. THE MOMENT!!! I am the happiest mom alive! I can't believe it... we're going to bring Lucy HOME!

Thank you ALL for the incredible love and support... I don't know what we'd do without you! I have so many other posts in my head about gifts and thank yous and pictures and everything--I promise to get to all of it but, for right now... I am just living in this moment. Basking in this happiness and emotion.

Isn't this what people do when they win an Oscar...spew all of this emotional mumbo jumbo all over the place? Well, I have just won the Academy Award for parents. I have three beautiful children!! And they will be united after we pick her up in... (hold on, checking the calendar) 27 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I saw a shooting star this morning while I was out on a 5am run with my friend, Suzi...S, I didn't tell you this... but, at that moment, I knew it would be today.

P.P.S. OH NO! Maybe this middle child issue is real... I just hi-jacked the post all about him and made it all about his sister. CRAP!

P.P.P.S.: To my three children... I LOVE YOU! You are the most incredible gift and I thank God every single day that I am not only blessed to know you but that I have been chosen to be your mom. You make me proud. I look forward to the day where the three of you gang up on the two of us because you're so close and we're just so uncool.

Lucy, we're coming to get you, baby girl. Hold tight -- we're almost there. And when I get you in my arms, I'm not sure I'll ever let you go...

UPDATE: Jeff is home and the champagne is cracked! I don't imagine anyone is sleeping in this house tonight!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

2008-08-12T21:37:00.001-07:00

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

2008-08-12T21:37:00.000-07:00

UPDATE 8/13 6:55 p.m. It's still real! I barely slept last night...crazy with excitement! Tonight, it's all about booking flights, hotels, and collecting paperwork we'll need to bring on our travels.
Thanks for all the incredible comments! I so appreciate every one of you.

I'm sitting here writing a post about Middle Child Day when I got an email from our agency...

WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We pick up Lucy on September 8th!!!!!!!

I am freaking OUT! Jeff is on his way home from work and I think I'll wait to tell him when he gets here. So while I will not post this until after I tell him, YOU are all getting me in the very moment I found out. THE MOMENT!!! I am the happiest mom alive! I can't believe it... we're going to bring Lucy HOME!

Thank you ALL for the incredible love and support... I don't know what we'd do without you! I have so many other posts in my head about gifts and thank yous and pictures and everything--I promise to get to all of it but, for right now... I am just living in this moment. Basking in this happiness and emotion.

Isn't this what people do when they win an Oscar...spew all of this emotional mumbo jumbo all over the place? Well, I have just won the Academy Award for parents. I have three beautiful children!! And they will be united after we pick her up in... (hold on, checking the calendar) 27 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I saw a shooting star this morning while I was out on a 5am run with my friend, Suzi...S, I didn't tell you this... but, at that moment, I knew it would be today.

P.P.S. OH NO! Maybe this middle child issue is real... I just hi-jacked the post all about him and made it all about his sister. CRAP!

P.P.P.S.: To my three children... I LOVE YOU! You are the most incredible gift and I thank God every single day that I am not only blessed to know you but that I have been chosen to be your mom. You make me proud. I look forward to the day where the three of you gang up on the two of us because you're so close and we're just so uncool.

Lucy, we're coming to get you, baby girl. Hold tight -- we're almost there. And when I get you in my arms, I'm not sure I'll ever let you go...

UPDATE: Jeff is home and the champagne is cracked! I don't imagine anyone is sleeping in this house tonight!

National Middle Child Day

2008-08-12T21:30:00.002-07:00

As I was searching the Internet, I discovered that today is National Middle Child Day. Up until now, that would have never affected me. Here I am, the 11th of 13 kids and married to a man who has only one sibling.

But, as of a week ago, I now have a middle child. I feel fortunate that my middle child is laid back enough to let me interact with others yet such a presence that he'll never fade into the background. I was taking some shots of Jeff over the weekend for the next Song Fu contest and my middle child climbed right up and said "cheese!" How can you not want to munch on those cheeks?

There are lots of tips out there for parents of a middle child.

1. Never compare your children to one another.
2. Treat each accomplishment individually and be sure to give proper attention to each.
3. Give your children a chance to try different things individually to find their own unique talents.
4. Make one-on-one time for each child.
5. Never tell one child that he is better or more talented than another.
6. Show equality among the children- make the rules the same and the expectations the same.
7. Show as much love as possible to all of your children.
8. Celebrate Middle Child Day.

My middle child is hilariously funny, sweeter than anyone, and passionately opinionated. I love you, my little Bubbakins.

National Middle Child Day

2008-08-12T21:30:00.001-07:00

National Middle Child Day

2008-08-12T21:30:00.000-07:00

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

2008-08-10T23:20:00.002-07:00

These are my siblings. Yes, I have THAT many siblings (13 of us total). Here we are with my parents and new bro in law at my sister's wedding last week. Lucy's going to have a lot of names to learn...on my side of the family alone, she has nine aunts, 11 uncles and 28 cousins.

You know what's really cool? Since the birth of my mother in 1935, Lucy will be the 62nd person to enter our family. And it's incredible that even after all the children who've come into our family over the years, everyone is still excited to meet the newest member of the clan. And yippee, they won't have to wait too much longer!

Not to be outdone on the excited part... the Mac side of the family. On Jeff's side, Lucy has...well, an uncle. Here's Scott!

And here he is with Auntie Pam. What they lack in numbers, they make up for with fun, lots of love and they're geographically desirable--living in CA!

We hope to have some Grandma and Grandpa pics to add when we see them later this month. Until then, enjoy our east coast adventure--in photos.

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

2008-08-10T23:20:00.001-07:00

Holy Aunts and Uncles, Lucy!

2008-08-10T23:20:00.000-07:00

Reading is Evil

2008-08-10T08:47:00.002-07:00

We took the kids to dinner yesterday. And in an effort to get J to try something different, I said, "They have quesadillas, grilled cheese, or spaghetti." He looked at me like I had three heads, points directly at the menu and said, "They have chicken nuggets too. It says it right there!"

This 4-year-old really needs to stop with the books.

Reading is Evil

2008-08-10T08:47:00.001-07:00

Reading is Evil

2008-08-10T08:47:00.000-07:00

How Hip Am I?

2008-08-09T19:05:00.002-07:00

I've been checking out all the baby carrier options out there for carrying Lucy around Taiwan. I don't want to buy one with only the ability to face out and I'm not ready to carry her around on my back and not be able to see her and connect. We checked out the Ergo, which is excellent, but we already have a something similar that straps on the back for down the road. I wanted something to promote bonding, allow me to carry her on my hip and also give me hands free--to do things like make bottles, upload photos or (if I'm really honest with myself) sign credit card slips. Come on, you think I'm not going to buy anything while we're in Taiwan??

We went to Babies R Us today and bought lots of the needed toddler stuff AND we stopped by the local furniture store and found a bed for her room! For those of you who think "bed" means crib... I'm not THAT bad. We've had a crib in there for months but she climbs out and I want to be sure we have a bed to move into (in case) as well as a place for me to sleep, if necessary.

Anyway, while we were there, we came across the Playtex Hip Hammock. It's nothing fancy and reasonably priced. I actually figured I'd be bringing it back once we got it home and tested it. But hey, look at that! It's relatively comfortable and, while it says up to 35 lbs, I put a 44 pound 4-year-old in it. (He was actually pretty bummed to get out.) So I think we'll be just fine around town with a 17 pound peanut strapped in.

How Hip Am I?

2008-08-09T19:05:00.001-07:00

How Hip Am I?

2008-08-09T19:05:00.000-07:00

Laundry Rocks!

2008-08-08T11:14:00.002-07:00

No, I haven't lost my mind... I'm just tickled pink (had to say it) at all the girlie things in my laundry basket these days! We're preparing for Lucy's arrival and now her clothes are all washed and folded and ready to be packed. (although we haven't bought the outfit for the big day yet)

Talk to me in a few months when I'm up to my ears in dirty clothes--a family of five gets pretty darn messy! But, for now, I'm just thrilled that the pink clothes that come out of the wash aren't a product of accidentally mixing Jeff's new red shirt with our whites.

Laundry Rocks!

2008-08-08T11:14:00.001-07:00

Laundry Rocks!

2008-08-08T11:14:00.000-07:00

Are You a Survivor?

2008-08-07T20:05:00.002-07:00

Due to popular demand... (ok, just Gracyn's mom Tiffanie) we've created our own store on Cafe Press. We have lots of cool ideas for adoption-related tees and such but decided to start with something everyone can appreciate...our crazy long wait for Miss Lucy! So go on over and buy a tee, hat, mug or bib--for adults and kids of all ages!

**All proceeds from the sale of these items will go to help another adopting family bring home their little boy. Noah's at SLC with Lucy and his parents have been working hard to raise enough funds to bring him home. If you'd like to make a donation, click chip in.

Are You a Survivor?

2008-08-07T20:05:00.001-07:00

Are You a Survivor?

2008-08-07T20:05:00.000-07:00

Pinch Me...

2008-08-07T05:59:00.002-07:00

I am still in disbelief that we're inching closer to bringing Lucy home. One minute, it's like nothing's changed...and the next, I'm weeping to songs on the radio. Do you have any idea how many songs have the word baby in them? While I think the songwriters intended the lyrics to be of the romantic variety, they take on entirely new meaning these days.

It's been a while since I was excited to buy bottles and diapers! And when someone said recently, "but you just got your little one out of diapers and now you have to go back there," I said "I KNOW!" a bit more excitedly than they expected. Because unless you're here, in this moment... you really don't know how INCREDIBLE the thought of diapers and bottles and all that comes with it really is.

While we were on vacation, we met this artist in Gloucester who does really great work and purchased a little something for Lucy's room. She painted part of it in Bali and the rest in New England. I found it fitting that the painting is like our family--fits perfectly when completed from different parts of the world. J has been so looking forward to putting it up and last night, he did the honors. I've also started to organize her room--it's become kind of a second play area for the boys so we had to pull out the train table. They were excited to help prepare for their little sister's arrival. We moved things around to make way for a bed...which we'll probably buy this weekend.

Don't go anywhere... this is the part of our journey that gets really interesting!

Pinch Me...

2008-08-07T05:59:00.001-07:00

Pinch Me...

2008-08-07T05:59:00.000-07:00

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-08-05T16:33:00.002-07:00

The post 10+ months in the making is here.

WE GOT OUR FIRST DECREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It feels so odd to even be able to type those words. I've dreamed of this moment for what feels like FOREVER...

As big bro J so proudly shared with his grandparents today, "the judge says Lucy is my sister now."

I have so much more to say but it's been a long day that included a cross country flight with two (ok one) rambunctious boy. (the other was an angel the whole flight...)

Lucy is OURS... we have a DAUGHTER! Now, after a 10-day mandatory waiting period, we will get the final ruling and a TRAVEL DATE!

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-08-05T16:33:00.001-07:00

It's Finally Happening!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-08-05T16:33:00.000-07:00

The East Coast Tour Nears the End...

2008-08-04T09:57:00.002-07:00

We've done so much over the past week plus... and it's all winding down today. Tomorrow, we'll hop on a plane and head back to CA. (I admit I'm a bit stressed with the recent shaking happening there.)

We've had a great time seeing family on both sides--the boys got to reconnect with aunts, uncles and cousins and met some on Jeff's side of the family. The boys also got to spend the night at their east coast pals' house while we enjoyed a grownups-only wedding. (the best kind of wedding in my opinion :) I'll have a slide show of our trip soon... it's been quite an adventure.

With all the speedy news a few weeks ago, I was convinced that we'd be heading back west with a first decree. It looks like that's not going to happen. I keep reminding myself that this is the last trip we'll take without her. Each day without news is harder than the last...

When we do get the good news, we'll definitely be ready to dress her! Lucy's received so many fun outfits from our family and friends on the east coast.

Thanks to Nana and Grampy, Tim & Jenn and the kids, and the Contes for the adorable gifts! I couldn't help myself and had to add a couple of Red Sox outfits too. :)

Here's to a new week with promise of some good news... keep your fingers crossed!

The East Coast Tour Nears the End...

2008-08-04T09:57:00.001-07:00

The East Coast Tour Nears the End...

2008-08-04T09:57:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to My Little Sis

2008-08-02T03:51:00.002-07:00

Today's the day... wishing Jules and Jim a lifetime of love and happiness.

Congratulations to My Little Sis

2008-08-02T03:51:00.001-07:00

Today's the day... wishing Jules and Jim a lifetime of love and happiness.

Congratulations to My Little Sis

2008-08-02T03:51:00.000-07:00

Today's the day... wishing Jules and Jim a lifetime of love and happiness.

Across the Milestones...

2008-08-01T19:38:00.002-07:00

Lucy is 18 mos today. A year and a half. Halfway through her second year. I remember what life was like with the boys at that age. It kills me to not be with her. Please give her a little thought today... she needs and deserves to be celebrated.

xoxo

Across the Milestones...

2008-08-01T19:38:00.001-07:00

Across the Milestones...

2008-08-01T19:38:00.000-07:00

Wish You Were Here...

2008-07-31T07:42:00.002-07:00

Greetings from Gloucester, MA (home of the Gorton's fisherman and pregnancy pacts)

We're having fun here on the east coast. It's amazing how much one can appreciate the sights and sounds of where they grew up when they're so removed from it on a regular basis. We've done lots of fun things since we got here Friday... birthday parties, the beach, nice dinners... tonight is the rehearsal dinner and the beginning of the wedding festivities. Who knew that lack of Internet access would be so stressful? As much as we love having no phone or computer, it's been eye-opening how much we rely on it every day.

One thing that hasn't changed is our wait. Our agency says it's no longer looking like this week that we'll get first decree news. I'm trying to use vacation as a distraction but, frankly, it's not working. Jeff and I are both extremely disappointed and saddened that we might actually be back in California when we finally hear the news. (sigh)

I think I need some of that "I believe" attitude back...

Wish You Were Here...

2008-07-31T07:42:00.001-07:00

Wish You Were Here...

2008-07-31T07:42:00.000-07:00

Song Fu: Final Challenge!

2008-07-24T20:37:00.002-07:00

I don't know HOW he did it... but Jeff has submitted his song for the FINALS of the songwriting contest. He worked like 80+ hours last week, got the boys to school every morning, and just happened to write and record a song...and a GOOD one at that! And get this--he took out the trash and made coffee every morning. (Love you for that!)

If that's not enough to win... then those songwriting fans need a clue on what true talent is. (He made me COFFEE!) His competitor's created a very nice ditty too... congratulations to both on a job very well done. Click here to vote!

Song Fu: Final Challenge!

2008-07-24T20:37:00.001-07:00

Song Fu: Final Challenge!

2008-07-24T20:37:00.000-07:00

Wanted: House Sitter Who Blogs

2008-07-24T08:19:00.002-07:00

Is it too much to ask our house/dog sitter to keep up with the blog while we're on vacation? Yes, you say? (I guess it's enough that they're living in our house holding down the fort for two weeks) Ok then... you'll have to deal with a less-than-frequent blog schedule for the next several days. We're off to Massachusetts to visit family and celebrate my little sis' nuptials and actually rented a house with NO Internet access. I'm looking forward to being less obsessed with the computer and spend more time with my boys.

For those of you keeping track: we should be in the air right now but Jet Blue was nice enough to cancel our flight. UGH. So we have to wait another 24 hours and drive 90 minutes to another airport in order to get there in time for my sister's "last hurrah" with the girls. (THAT should be worth blogging about.)

Wanted: House Sitter Who Blogs

2008-07-24T08:19:00.001-07:00

Wanted: House Sitter Who Blogs

2008-07-24T08:19:00.000-07:00

Who Doesn't Love Lucy Stories?

2008-07-22T09:09:00.002-07:00

This just in from Ramona, who was united with Jaden yesterday!

"I peered in the 1st window and I could see a baby sitting in a playpen. I took a double look and said, "Is that Lucy?" The mention of her name lit everyone up with smiles and chatter. I can tell everyone there is working very hard at getting her home quickly. There was lots of chatter about how she needs to go home and they've been making extra-ordinary efforts to get things done for her. When the inside nanny saw me waving at her, she picked her up so I could see her. Both my husband and I gasped at how beautiful she is. And, like Jaden, so tiny. Lucy sat contently in the nanny's arms and looked at us. I kept waving and saying, "Hi Lucy. Hi Lucy". We then migrated right and they followed. When we stopped at the next window, her nanny opened it so Lucy could hear me. I said, "Hi Lucy" and waved at her. She bent forwarded and tried to close the window! Little squirt! Her nanny put her down and then I witnessed her monkey abilities. With a quickness, she climbed into a walker and sped around! Jessica said she's taken to climbing from crib to crib to crib.

I loved seeing her. Her beautiful almond-shaped eyes are so inquisitive and full of intelligence. Beauty, intelligence and a wonderful family waiting for her...she's got it all.

The SLC people said that Noah, Lucy and Jaden play together the most and that they were really happy the 3 moms know each other. They expressed that they would like for us to keep the children in touch with each other, especially those 3. I told them we'd already vowed to."

Thanks, Ramona! Can't wait to get them together again soon.

Update: 12:30 p.m.
This just in! Noah's mom Tami heard news of first decree today!

Who Doesn't Love Lucy Stories?

2008-07-22T09:09:00.001-07:00

Who Doesn't Love Lucy Stories?

2008-07-22T09:09:00.000-07:00

Imperfect 10

2008-07-21T05:00:00.002-07:00

Top 10 reasons waiting ten months stinks...

10. Four words: Have. You. Heard. Anything.
9. Ten special holidays and birthdays have come and gone without her.
8. Giving away buckets of clothes I thought she'd actually wear.
7. Not going back east for a year because we could hear "any day" and missing my family.
6. Explaining the wait to a sensitive 4-year-old.
5. Explaining the wait to a sensitive 41-year-old.
4. Starting to forget what she felt like in my arms and the smell of her hair.
3. Living every minute of every day wondering if she's ok and wondering when...
2. My serious addiction to email, cell phone, and other families' blogs.
1. This face. This funny, sassy, sweet, loving, adorable face.

Imperfect 10

2008-07-21T05:00:00.001-07:00

Imperfect 10

2008-07-21T05:00:00.000-07:00

Sweet Sarah...

2008-07-20T21:38:00.002-07:00

I got to see Miss Sarah, Mom Marina and the rest of the happy H family today! I am amazed at how far Sarah has come in such a short time. Not only is she active and playful--especially impressive since she recently underwent some serious stuff... but she is so in love with her mama and daddy and big brothers. Thank you, Marina, for letting us Macs invade your space for a bit and visit. I can't help but dream forward when we're getting our girls together. It won't be long...

You'll notice I only have photos of Sarah eating and sleeping. That's because I was so amazed and excited to play with her that I didn't even think to pull out my camera 'til she was wiped out! You'll just have to go to Marina's blog to keep up with all the smiles in that household.

Sweet Sarah...

2008-07-20T21:38:00.001-07:00

Sweet Sarah...

2008-07-20T21:38:00.000-07:00

Wait... She's WHAT??

2008-07-18T19:27:00.002-07:00

We got a developmental update just a few minutes ago. (wow, our agency sure does work hard.)

While Lucy is still holding steady at being the tiniest Mac at a mere 17 pounds... she's making up for it with her activity!

This is the one that's freaking me out: "she can climb out from the baby bed"

(screech!)

Hold on here... are we going to have to get her into a bed already? I thought we were adopting a toddler, not a full-grown monkey! Chasing this climbing cutie is going to be a full-time job! Just in the past few minutes, I've started searching for beds. Guess it's not a bad idea so I'll have somewhere to sleep if she needs some help in the snoozing department.

Other highlights: "strong personality, likes to walk around, can say mama, good in imitating people" (You should see the silly grin on my face over that mama one). And they also said that she likes to get the nannies slippers as they enter the room. If you've been to SLC, you know that they remove their shoes and put slippers on upon entry to the nursery. If you happen to be going there before we pick up Lucy, perhaps our daughter will assist you with your slipper needs.

Stay strong, Monkey Girl. We're getting closer!

P.S. Lucy's BFF Jaden (just days apart) is less than 48 hours of being united with her family. Mom Ramona always has a fantastic account of the daily activities so be sure to follow their journey.

Wait... She's WHAT??

2008-07-18T19:27:00.001-07:00

Wait... She's WHAT??

2008-07-18T19:27:00.000-07:00

Days Away from a Decree?

2008-07-18T10:35:00.002-07:00

I got an email from our agency last night letting us know that SLC spoke with the court and we could possibly have a decree by the end of JULY. That would be absolutely incredible! Given past cases, that would have us traveling sometime in September...

Funny thing: September is the end of summer and the beginning of the leaves changing in New England so that means 65 people who voted on our "When will Lucy come home" poll would be right! I'm not even going to mention those three 'glass half empty' people who voted Christmas and 2009. (wink, wink)

I've gotten lots of emails wondering if I've dropped off the face of the earth since I last posted. Sorry! I've been kicked down with a big-time case of the flu. Hey, but I did lose 5 of the 8 pounds I was aiming for. Who knew 48 hours of no food was the way to go.

Days Away from a Decree?

2008-07-18T10:35:00.001-07:00